Thursday, January 20, 2011

On Blaming God

I recently followed a thread in the Cancer Survivors Network asking if patients find themselves blaming God for getting cancer. It is seems to be an often asked question, especially by some non-believers, that if there is a God, why does he let bad things happen to good people? I felt compelled to respond in the following way:

We seem to have a compulsion to want to blame someone or something for everything bad that happens to us. Perhaps this a way of finding meaning and understanding in what appears to be an irrational occurrence. Blaming is in fact contrary to divine faith because it is an attempt to try and regain control over what we think is unreasonable.


People of faith spend their whole lives trying to let go of their ego and live solely by the will of God. Just because something happens that I don't like, does that mean God is against me or punishing me? We often will lose or question faith when things don't go our way, but that is not how God works. Our beliefs do not give us permission to dictate to God what we think He should do for us. Rather, isn't faith trusting God to always provide what is best for us, even when we don't understand it?


Furthermore, some find intense trials, like cancer, to be a time of conversion or great deepening of their belief. For me, it has made me see how little control I over myself or things around me, and reminds me that I NEED God even more then ever.

Feel free to add your comments.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Guest Speaker, Ethel Sickert

Ethel Sickert will be guest speaker at St. Bridget Centering Prayer Group on Wednesday, January 12, 2011. Ethel leads the centering prayer group at St. Barnabas Church in Scottsdale, also home of pastor Jim Clark who leads Quiet Day every month.

A video entitled "Thoughts and Distractions" during Centering Prayer" will be shown following our 20 minute centering time. Ethel has been practicing centering prayer for over 20 years and will be available to answer any questions relating to her extensive experience.


Wednesday, January 12th, 2011
6:30pm